"Don't mistake my personality with my attitude.
My personality is who I am, my attitude depends on who you are" - Franck Ocean
I call this "mask yourself" Some people are wearing 101 masks and they're mastering the art of shaping their attitude depeding of who are standing in front of them.
My personality is all about, enjoying little moments and things in life, walking barefoot, eating Nutella with a spoon (bread is for the weak) Lipsyncing on disney music, spoiling my loved ones with gifts and "surprise days" ( Surprise! We're going to spend the day in a protected natural reserve! Surprise! I set up the day so you're gonna learn to pilot a small plan ! *yes, those are both surprises i did) Dancing like crazy on Britney songs, sitting in my garden while the sun goes up and draw
I'm all about cuddling and laughing out loud, writing cheerful notes on the fridge for those i share my home with before i go to work. And if you ask everyone around me, you'll soon realize that my nickname is...... "The Ice Queen"
Those who know me for more than 20 years will tell you i'm solitary, withdrawn (If not cold) Some might tell that i'm temperamental. They will tell you i'm a busy workaholic businesswoman with her heels and makeup always on point. The truth is that i learned from a very young age how to shape my attitude ; By the age of 10 I already perfectly know how to shape my behavior towards the persons i was working with (I started working at a very young age but i'll talk more about it in another article) I quickly extented this to my school mates, family, friends, boyfriends....
I know! I know! It sound a lot like being fake but..... to my love of enjoying small moments i was told that i had to be efficient ; To walking barefoot and eating chocolate straight from the jar to be classy ; To cuddling and carring to be pushed away and so on and so on. So I learnt how to set up my attitude around it. One of the question I ask the most to people is
"What would you want me to do?"
I listen to their answers, I take notes, I shape my attitude. And of course we're gonna do some good work together, of course we're gonna argue less, of course you're gonna like me....my attitude have been shape especially for you. But don't mistake it! It's not my personality, my personality is who i am when no one is watching.
I'm Kcatt, i'm a Member of Amnesty Int Emergency Action and a Women's and human's Rights Activist and former memeber of WWF.